The Nitty Gritty

DOB: July 22, 1985
STATUS: Married to Blake
CHILDREN: Baby J
EDUCATION: Some College
JOB: Part-Time Teller @ Bank of America
HEIGHT: 5′3″
WEIGHT: 124 lbs
EYE COLOR: Brown
HAIR: Natural Chica
FOOD: Strawberries, Salads, Seafood
DRINK: Water & Coke Floats & water & Shamrock Milk (chocolate)

The History

I was born on July 22, 1985 in Hampton, SC. Being born feet-first, I was stubborn from the very beginning. I have 5siblings. I’ve always had the blessing of growing up with both of my parents. Having many brothers, I was somewhat of a tomboy…mostly a country girl (you know, the running through the woods barefoot type). I didn’t have many friends, because I was really quiet and shy.
My first best friend was Mallory until she moved to Michigan when we were in 1st or 2nd grade. Then I met Kima, who I didn’t like at first. We eventually became the best of friends. She went into foster care, and I met Danielle in the 7th grade. She told me that the guy I was dating (my first boyfriend, Percel) was a player, and that he was trying to get with her, and we’ve been friends since. We started lots of rumors, and got into lots of trouble together. Then somehow, in the 10th grade, I started hanging out with Jess and Cynt. I don’t talk to any of them anymore.
So, after Percel, I had about 8 or 9 other boyfriends. I was in love with one, Vincent. He was my sweetheart for years. I went off to Winthrop University, but I left after one semester to be with Vince. The next year around the same time, he left me for a girl he met over a sex hotline. He cost me my education, my job, my life. That’s when I started with web design. I used it as an outlet for my stress and pain. Joined lots of sites, spent more time on Yahoo, got back in school at Beaufort Tech. Then I met Q. We spent a wonderful year together. Was even thinking about getting married, but I decided that the drama of him having a child was too much for me to handle. I started becoming stressed out…having headaches all of the time. Stress kills, and if something kills you then it’s not good for you. So I closed that chapter of my book, and started a new one onmaturity and finding peace…with Blake.

The Personality

I’ve always been a quiet person..at least until I got my first job at McDonald’s. That job changed my life and my entire personality. I started messing with the drug dealers, crackheads…crazy people. I thank God for allowing me to meet them, because if I hadn’t, I would probably be one of the biggest pushovers in existence. On the other hand, I’m not happy with the person that I have become over the years. If I could go back to the way that I was, I would..as long as I could keep some of the things that I’ve learned.
I think that being a Cancer-Leo mix has a lot of impact on my personality. Lots of people tell me that I have splitpersonalities, which I’m starting to believe is true. Depending on my mood, some days I’m happy, calm, quiet, all into my man. Then the next day, I’m being a loud, obnoxious bitch, who craves attention so much she would rather get it from somewhere besides home. The guys I get with tend to think that it’s their fault because they aren’t giving me what I need, but I must reassure them that it’s more of a personal issue.
Either way, I’ve always been a loving person. I like to give everyone one chance to prove themselves, and even when I have a bad-ass attitude, say the wrong thing and I’ll break down and cry. I spend a lot of time being depressed because of things that I do. I wish that I could stop, or have some control, but that’s not me. I don’t have control over anything in my life…well, maybe some things. I’m working on improving that fault, though.

The Relationship

It’s no secret, I am taken. He’s a wonderful guy named Blake, and we’ve been together since June 21, 2006, and got married on November 8, 2008. I love him very much, and he makes me very happy, and I enjoy every minute of our relationship. We’ve had our share of arguments, but we’re working to prevent all of that in the future. We met at Food Lion, and worked together at HT, where he’s the asst. produce manager. I gave birth to our first child on January 26, 2010.

The Favorites

*music* Inspirational and Gospel. Still loving Mariah Carey.
*style* Victorias Secret; Energie; Polos; Khakis; Jeans; Lip Gloss; Eyeshadow; AF Ones; Flip Flops; Pumas
*activities* Working; I-net; YAHOO(link); Twitter; FaceBook; Spending Money; Blackberry Storm2;

IM Info

AIM: terinselena
YAHOO: wiphey@ymail.com

As A Site

themrsh.me was purchased by me.

Opened: June 2009

Registered: Go-Daddy

Hosted: Surpass Hosting

The History

I’ve always been into web design…you know, back in the era where Geocities and Angelfire ruled the world of personal sites. Then I got into sites liked BlackPlanet and Paxed, and continued redesigning my pages there while I was in high school. Then, in my first year of college, I bought Eluzions.net, and had it hosted at Fateback (a free web hosting site). I also had a few subsites at lyna.yoll.net and eluzions.fateback.com. These two sites are the ones that got me hosted by Anna from Not-Sorry.com. I stayed there until she offered me my own domain, which is how Girlkill.com came alive. Then I was at the peak of my design period. I learned how to skin, install Greymatterand Wordpress, and how to operate the Control Panel. I had a couple of hostees, and a forum (Cherry Bomb MB) with my friend Tiffany. Then Anna mysteriously disappeared (even though I still had GK.) I decided to give it up, and branch off on my own. I found this girl on a MB who was selling hosting plans, and I bought luvva-girl.net. While I was hosted there, the site kept going down, and then one day it never came back up. I emailed the girl and asked her to send me my DNS info so I can move my domain over to Anna’s hosting plan. Then Anna disappeared and I never heard from her again or got control over LG. Eager to try again, I bought luv-my-hunny.org from Net Firms and got it hosted by Reseller Zoom. I didn’t keep up with the site because I fell out of love with the name. That’s when I bought N3rdie.net from Go Daddy. It was renewed in October by me. I felt like it described me to the fullest, but I had to let it go because of my ex-boyfriend – in an attempt to cut off all ties. So then, I went with Imponderable.net. After 3 months of being at Imponderable, I moved to Surpass Hosting to start my business (Imponderable Designs). I moved back to N3rdie, so that I can dedicate Imponderable to my business. Then I decided that I wanted something different. RockYaSox was born. After quickly becoming bored with RYS, Blake and I thought of different names and decided to go with Love: Sugarcoated. After that came bellechic.org, which is just a blank site. I then moved on to ohmrsb.com, ohembe.com, hiswifey.com, wiphey.org, and domesticous.com. Now I’m here at themrsh.me. I think I’m going to stay here. LOL!

The Reason

Because I want to. Just Kidding. I do this because it keeps me from being bored to death. It also helps me get stuff off my chest, and out in the open.

The Credits

**PSDs [if used] are by PS Delightful or Outspoken Kate. Graphics made by me using Photoshop CS3.

The FAQs

Q. How long have you been into blogging and designing?

A. I’ve had some sort of webpage for the last 6 or 7 years. Designing…maybe for the two years or so, I’ve been doing some pretty decent work.

Q. Can we do link exchanges?

A. Sure. If I’m feeling your site I would love to exchange links with you. Be aware though, I have a few that I read religiously and I’m not a big commenter.